Your wedding. Your decision, especially because you're paying for it.
We got married an hour away from where we lived, outside, at a hotel. We loved it. Some family and friends couldn't make it and we missed them but I wasn't going to have it closer to his or my family just because they wanted us to. We picked the location we loved. Now I would have loved to have gotten married in Disney but at the time it would have cost us way to much. So we're thinking of getting remarried in Disney for our 20th anniversary. We've only been married 8 years.