Someone requested to be my friend and before I looked to see if they had written a message as well, I clicked approve. Then I realized she had written a note to me also, but after you click approve that private message disappears! So, I have no idea what she wrote. How do I read what she wrote int eh request friends PM? I hope I am making sense, maybe I'm missing something....

I know what you mean - I did that before too. Can you remember who it was? If so, just pm and tell her you managed to delete the message before you realised it was there and see if she'll tell you again

That's odd. Can't think of anything other than what Kimmi suggested though.