amy I am sorry and I say that meaning I know this is going to be hard no matter what you are right you need to just be there for your dd. I have to say it is a little more difficult because of the age thing and I dont know how it is where you live but over here due to your dds age and the age of the father it is an automatic cps case that has to be reported.
you know that we are here for you know matter what and I know that god will be watching over all of you.
I think the attitude she is giving may be because she is scared but also probably has a lot to do with this man----I know you are going to be supportive but also be wary he is older and his intentions are unknown right now.
sending you lots of hugs----I dont think there are very many words that are going to make sense at least not for a couple of days once you have a chance to wrap your head around it all.
we are here to talk but I also know you have a great support system with your family just want to remind you that we are here for you