I am still in shock but dealing. My heart is so heavy for my Sil. I can not imagine being in her place. I am not sure she is every going to be okay.
MIL was very odd. I was the one who told her and I was tearing up and trying to tell her without dragging it out. She said go ahead and cry and then said she might later. Just no reaction other than that. She talked about her melon and trash, wanted us to do some work for her. IDK. We stayed for awhile but no reaction really except to have me get her some cards to send out. It was not what we expected and so will not be telling this to SIL.