Bren, I am so sorry that you have such sorrow. I did that same thing with my daddy. It is a painful feeling when we realize. Our lives are so busy. We rush around and think "I will do it later, tomorrow....". Our Father has him now and all these things are very clear to him. For us left here it feels like unfinished business. We feel regret.... sorrow..... Uncle Mel is releived, rejoicing, praising... I long for the day that I too can see our Heavenly Father.
Bren, just to let you know something..... You are loved more than you know. I love the beauty that lives inside the hard working woman. You radiate love with every word you type. I am very sure that like us, uncle Mel knew.
For the record, I love each of you here. My prayers are with you each night along with praise to our Father for sending me here to be a part of such a wonderful, faithful, inspiring group of ladies. God bless you all.
Love and hugs