For the May lyric challenge: A song from the year you were born, or when you became a mother yourself. "Suddenly" by Billy Ocean was popular in 1985, the year i became a mother for the first time. Journaling: Somewhere in the 5th month of my 1st pregnancy, i decided that having a baby was probably a bad idea, that i wasn't ready for the responsibility, that i would be a failure as a mother. Reality had finally hit me, and suddenly, i knew my life would never be the same. And, happily, i was right.