Give a Cheer
For the new Challenge Blog Dirty Scraps
The Peeve:
It really irks me when people go hunting for a reason to hurt you and be mean to you when you have done nothing to them to deserve it. Especially when they demand you explain yourself and you know there is NOTHING you could say or do to make them happy or to like you. I don’t understand why they try to drag you down in petty gossip and arguments when there is nothing to argue about. When someone is set on hating you they just hate on you. I am a grown ass woman, why do I need to try to “make” someone like me when they are so set on hating me to begin with? Why are you poking the Pink one??
The Positive:
I cannot say why people do this,
I don’t know if it is jealousy, or they are lacking drama in their life so they feel the need to create it, but I have learned that those people are not worth the effort. At my age you have to find your true friends and appreciate them, and let the haters go and try not to let it bring you down. Smile and move along. I am learning that letting it go is best and it is getting easier as the years go by. I have some GREATand KIND friends, the people who try to find reasons to hate you, well it’s their lot in life. The positive is, I no longer argue and get angry, I just feel sorry for them and see them as they are and it brings my true friends closer to me. I have learned that fighting gossip with gossip does not work, it makes you look small and petty. It might take 10 years but they will realize one day.It’s all about perspective and PEACE.
No drama momma here, stay positive and stay strong.
Thanks for spreading positivity!
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