Lovely, lovely layout but as a historian, I can't help but comment. While I'm sure this superstition did exist, in reality the custom began as a matter of expediency. It's much easier to diaper change and toilet train a child in a dress, especially in those more primitive times. Young boys were "breeched" (put into male trousers) when they were finally able to undo and redo the rather complicated buckle and button fastenings of male trousers of the times without assistance. No snaps, zippers and certainly no elastic then! Also, dresses were easier to make with room for future growth in a time when clothing was more expensive. A single dress could be made to last a child from infancy through the toddler years. Still and all, as I said, a truly lovely layout and what a fun experience!
How interesting - I never knew the superstition! I have photos of my father and DH's father and uncles all dressed in dresses. I just thought it was a custom. So the girls got the cold bedroom? I would have put off accomplishing walking around with the candle if I knew that!
I knew about the evil spirits thinking, but I didn't realize the girls didn't get a fireplace because they were sturdy! LOL I know parents valued their sons more than their daughters. Sturdy! LOL
I also have one of my dad wearing a dress! I think the English settlers brought that tradition over from England. Superstition was so deeply seeded in early England and probably was here too. Remember how afraid our country was in the early years, especially noted with the Salem witch trials carried out by fine Christians of the time believing others were possessed. In early times, even the early years of the United States, superstition or other labels were given to things that weren't understood. I think it was brought to our country from England, and since crib death wasn't understood anywhere in the world at that time, this belief probably spread to other countries as well to explain it. At some point, dressing little boys as girls probably transitioned from superstition to tradition, and it would be easier to change the diaper of a toddler wearing a dress! Good point!
You are right, I too have a picture of my father in a dress when he was about 6 mos. Probably found out it was much easier to change when wearing a dress than if they had pants on!! Always interesting stories with the pictures to go with it. Generations from now your books will probably become historical references Henri!!!
It was in this room that William Shakespeare was born, as were his children.
Why Young Boys Were Dressed Like Girls
It was customary for children to share their parent's bedroom when they were young. A cradle for a small infant was commonly found on one side of the parent's bed and under the adult bed was a trundle which was pulled out at night for the toddlers and young children. (Photos left and center.) This bedroom was kept warm and traditionally had a fireplace.
Beyond that was another bedroom which usually had a fireplace. This was the older boys' room. (Photo of boys' bedroom on the right - you can see the fireplace next to the bed.)
Beyond the boys' bedroom was the girls' room which was very cold with no access to a fireplace or heat. It was believed that girls were much sturdier and could take the colder bedroom better without getting sick so the older boys shared the warm bedroom next to their parents. Also, boys were more important so it was important that they were kept healthier. If you were going to lose a child, you did not want it to be a son!
It was standard in those days to keep the children in the room with the parents until they could do accomplish one thing. When they could safely walk around the room holding a lit candle, they were old enough to be moved out of their parent's bedroom. When they could pass that test they were moved into the girls' bedroom or the boys' bedroom.
Crib death or Sudden Infant Death Syndrome was a mystery then as it is today, and the lives of many babies and young children were tragically taken. Since they knew of no logical explanation for these sudden deaths, they concluded that the children's souls were being taken by evil spirits. They also concluded that since the boys were much more important to the family and to society, they believed the spirits were much more interested in taking the boys and leaving the girls.
To trick the evil spirits not to take the male infants and boys, they dressed them like little girls. That is why little boys wore dresses and feminine bonnets – to fool the evil spirits into thinking they were girls so they would pass them by and not take them.
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