my fiance was diagnosed with cancer yesterday. never smoked, never drank, ran marathons, was as healthy as they came. he used to tease me and my children that we had health issues. now he is facing one of the worst. i am hoping that this is beatable. i waited so long to find him, to have him in my life. i don't want to lose him. we have become a family. my children consider him a father. this has just shaken us soo much. it just isn't fair. it really isnt. i know that sounds trite. but what do u say...when you have so much to say? does that make sense? its so hard because talking isn't going to fix this....