i will say...he went into work today. i am not sure when he is going to tell his boss, but his line of work in a small family and people talk, so i am sure he will find out. i just didnt want him finding out from someone other than ron. he wasn't sure how long he would make it at work today still sore from the biopsies but at least he is off his butt and doing something to get him mind off of everything ahead. i just continue to pray.