This is a great layout. As a stay at home mom who does not really have any other things I have to do... our clothes never make it onto hangers or into drawers. There are ALWAYS dirty dishes and toys everywhere. I don't think Moms were really intended to stay ahead of it all. I think the Supermoms are the ones who would choose spending time with the kids over keeping up the apperance that life with kids is not total chaos.
Somewhere along the line, I began to believe that I could have it all. I have to work, but I am lucky enough to have a job that allows me the flexibility to work around Eric’s schedule. Since we are able to raise our children without daycare, I believed that I could work and still live the life of a stay at home mom. Then reality hit. Most days, my house is a disaster area. If someone were to come over without warning, it is probable that they would see floors covered with toys, countertops littered with papers, and a sink piled full of dishes. Almost daily, we are shopping out of the dryer for clothes to wear, and I am embarrassed to admit how many Happy Meals my children eat. I always knew that I was no June Cleaver, but I ever expected to feel like my house belonged on Clean Sweep.
I’ve really tried to figure out how the rest of the world keeps their homes so clean and organized. I’ve made lists, I’ve tried FlyLady, I’ve done marathon cleaning sessions more time than I can count. It never really lasts. There is never any doubt that my home is lived in. I can’t help it. I would rather play house with my kids than clean my house. I choose to snuggle on the couch instead of cleaning the kitchen. I scrap when I should be folding laundry.
I really have been trying to find a happy balance. I know my house will never look like a model home, or even like the beautiful homes of my neighbors, but I am trying to make sure it is clean enough that I don’t panic when the doorbell rings. More importantly, I am giving myself credit for the things I do, because when it comes down to it, I really have a wonderful life. I have a job that keeps my brain working, helps support my family, and truly helps the community. I have a wonderful husband who is my partner in everything. I have two beautiful, happy, busy children who enjoy having two involved parents. I really need to accept the fact that June Cleaver never actually existed. I may not be a supermom, but you know what ~ I really do have it all!
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